Module 12: Pathways to Careers: Changing Roles – From Parent to Partner
SECTION 1: Introduction for Training Facilitators
Overview
The ADA and Self-Advocacy for Youth — Train-the-Trainer Curriculum has been developed with a modular design. Using the train-the-trainer model, each module will include multiple components including:
- PowerPoint slides with presentation content and talking notes.
- Training facilitator talking points and speaker notes.
- Videos and other multi-media content (when appropriate)
- Activities such as role play scenarios, quizzes, and art activities.
- Relevant resources including targeted documents, organizations, and websites.
The modules are designed to be presented in stand-alone sessions. Shorter or longer sessions may be developed based upon the students’ needs. A menu of interactive exercises will be provided for each module. One or more activities may be selected to reinforce the learning objectives based upon the needs of the facilitator and students.
Training facilitators participate in a train-the-trainer event led by the BBI/SEADA Curriculum Development Team. Training facilitators will also be provided with targeted, relevant materials about hosting an accessible training event, accessible presentation methods, effective utilization of the module materials, and strategies for customizing modules based on audience needs.
Learning Modules
- Module 1: Pathways to Careers: An Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) Roadmap
- Module 2: Disclosure Decisions and Talking About My Disability
- Module 3: The ADA in the Workplace
- Module 4: The ADA in Higher Education
- Module 5: Advocating for My Rights Under the ADA
- Module 6: Skills for Successful Employment
- Module 7: The ADA and Reasonable Accommodations on the Job
- Module 8: The ADA in the Community
- Module 9: The ADA and Effective Communication for Individuals who are Deaf or Hard of Hearing
- Module 10: The ADA and Effective Communication for Individuals who are Blind or Low Vision
- Module 11: Interactions with Law Enforcement
- Module 12: Parent to Partner
Module 12: Pathways to Careers: Changing Roles – From Parent to Partner
Module 12: Pathways to Careers: Changing Roles – From Parent to Partner parents will explore the skills needed to support their child as he/she moves from school to adulthood. The module will also cover the topics: Planning Early – Transitioning to Adulthood; Laws That Protect Your Child’s Rights; Money Management, ABLE Accounts, and Benefits Planning; Supporting Your Young Adult in Making Daily & Major Life Decisions; Employment Skills Development; Housing; Health Care; Post-Secondary Training and Education Programs; and Planning for the Future. Discussion questions are incorporated throughout the slide presentation. Interactive exercises are provided to reinforce the content from the slide presentation and the video.
The PowerPoint presentation provides a basic overview of transition from youth to adult and the skills parents can use to help their child. Combined with the suggested advance readings that parents can access, the initial exercise focuses on ways that youth are changing, making decisions, and beginning to advocate for themselves. The overall goal of this module is to broadly introduce parents to the skills needed to support their child as they transition to adulthood.
Learning Objectives
Parents will:
- Explore the skills needed to support their child as he/she moves from school to adulthood.
- Review their child’s life journey and discuss the needed steps for their child to work and live independently in the community.
- Understand the importance of early planning for their child’s transition from high school to adulthood.
- Be able to identify the laws that protect the rights of their child with a disability.
- Identify potential social and community support networks for their son or daughter.
- Be able to identify the key self-advocacy items that their teen needs to learn as they transition to adulthood.
- Understand the importance of connecting with adult service providers prior to their child’s graduation from high school.
- Identify ways that they can practice money management skills with their child.
- Gain a basic understanding of ABLE accounts.
- Be able to list at least three Qualified Disability Expenses for an ABLE account.
- Understand how a special needs trust can provide additional money for an adult child receiving public benefits.
- Be able to make a list of the items needed to prepare for benefits planning for their child after high school.
- Identify the benefits for which their child may be eligible.
- Consider the option of their child working with another trusted family member, friend, or a professional who will help them make decisions and respect their individual wishes as they transition to adulthood.
- Be able to discuss the options that are available to assist their child with making decisions as they transition to adulthood.
- Be able to list “soft” employment skills that their child may need to develop or improve.
- Identify a minimum of two housing options to explore with their son/daughter as they transition to adulthood.
- Be able to list the steps to transitioning their young person to an adult healthcare provider.
- Be able to discuss the importance of visiting post-secondary institutions and the disability services offices.
- Be able list the tips for success.
SECTION 2: Strategies for Customization
Adapting and Making Accommodations for Students with Disabilities
The following resources provide guidance on working with students with a variety of disabilities. The resources provide information about adaptations that can be made to instructional techniques and accommodations that can be provided to increase inclusion in the classroom.
- Teaching Students with Disabilities
Source: Vanderbilt University Center for Teaching
Link: cft.vanderbilt.edu/guides-sub-pages/disabilities/ - Successful Strategies for Teaching Students with Learning Disabilities
Source: Learning Disabilities Association of America
Link: ldaamerica.org/successful-strategies-for-teaching-students-with-learning-disabilities/ - Teaching Students with Disabilities
Source: Center for Teaching and Learning, University of Washington
Link: www.washington.edu/teaching/topics/inclusive-teaching/teaching-students-with-disabilities/ - Teaching Students with Disabilities
Source: University of Rochester
Link: www.rochester.edu/college/teaching/teaching-guidance/students-with-disabilities.html - Etiquette for Working with Students with Disabilities
Source: Best Colleges
Link: www.bestcolleges.com/resources/disability-etiquette/ - Resources & Support for College Students with Disabilities
Source: STEPS (Student Training & Education in Public Service)
Link: www.publicservicedegrees.org/college-resources/college-students-with-disabilities/ - College for Students with Disabilities: A Guide for Students, Families, and Educators
Source: Maryville University
Link: online.maryville.edu/disabilities-guide/ - Tips for Teaching Students with Disabilities
Source: The University of Wyoming — University Disability Support Services
Link: www.uwyo.edu/wind/echo OR www.uwyo.edu/wind/index.html - Invisible Disabilities and Postsecondary Education
Source: DO IT Center, University of Washington
Link: www.washington.edu/doit/invisible-disabilities-and-postsecondary-education
Related Video – Captioned and Audio Described (18:44 minutes)
Link: www.washington.edu/doit/videos/index.php?vid=36 - How to Teach and Accommodate
Source: University of Massachusetts Dartmouth
Link: www.umassd.edu/dss/resources/faculty-staff/how-to-teach-and-accommodate/ - 23 Ways to Communicate with a Non-Verbal Child
Source: Special Needs Resources
Link: www.friendshipcircle.org/blog/2013/04/16/23-ways-to-communicate-with-a-non-verbal-child/ - Instructional Strategies
Source: Understood: for Learning & Attention Issues
Link: www.understood.org/en/school-learning/partnering-with-childs-school/instructional-strategies - At a Glance: Classroom Accommodations for Nonverbal Learning Disabilities
Source: Understood: for Learning & Attention Issues
Link: www.understood.org/en/school-learning/partnering-with-childs-school/instructional-strategies/at-a-glance-classroom-accommodations-for-nonverbal-learning-disabilities
Customizing the Lesson Using Presentation Material and Interactive Exercises
There are three sets of resources provided that can be woven together to customize the learning experience, depending on your goals as an instructor for this particular lesson on the Changing Roles – From Parent to Partner (e.g., providing a very simple introduction versus teaching the basics as a platform for having parents engage in deeper learning about complex examples). These include: (1) advance preparation material that parents can review; (2) a set of PowerPoint slides that can be used in a lecture and discussion format; and (3) a set of interactive exercises to stimulate applied learning, creativity, and deeper thinking about the concepts.
1. Advance Preparation Material for Parents
This lesson provides a very simple, high-level overview of Changing Roles – From Parent to Partner. The goal is to introduce parents to the topic Changing Roles – From Parent to Partner and provide examples of skills they can work on with their children to prepare them to transition into adulthood. Suggested resources for advance preparation include readings about transition and some of the skills needed such as: Planning Early – Transitioning to Adulthood; Laws That Protect Your Child’s Rights; Money Management, ABLE Accounts, and Benefits Planning; Supporting Your Young Adult in Making Daily & Major Life Decisions; Employment Skills Development; Housing; Health Care; Post-Secondary Training and Education Programs; and Planning for the Future.
As noted, these materials can be provided in advance to parents, or if the class session is long enough, they may be used in class prior to presenting the PowerPoint slides and getting into a specific discussion of transitioning from youth to adulthood. Alternatively, they could be used as both advance preparation (pre-homework) and repeated in class to reinforce the learning.
2. PowerPoint Slides
The PowerPoint slides can be used in class to provide an overview of Changing Roles – From Parent to Partner. Combined with the interactive exercises, the presentation can be extended to cover a long class session or multiple smaller class sessions. The slides can also be presented on their own as part of a short lesson on Changing Roles – From Parent to Partner.
3. Interactive Exercises
Several interactive exercises are provided to engage parents in considering specific examples that relate to the material “Changing Roles-From Parent to Partner.” For example, while the presentation material focuses on exploring and developing skills and understanding, an interactive exercise reinforces the learning in the module. Therefore, the exercise provides a greater understanding of the changing roles parents have in their child’s life and helps parents understand how to support their child as they transition to adult roles.
SECTION 3: Suggested Advance Preparation for Facilitators
Planning Early – Transitioning to Adulthood
- The Journey to Life After High School: A Road Map for Parents of Children with Special Needs
Source: AbilityPath.org, An Online Initiative of Gatepath
Link: abilitypath.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/life-after-high-school.pdf - Parents’ Guide to Transition from School to Community
Source: Manitoba Education Center
Link: www.edu.gov.mb.ca/k12/docs/parents/transition/working_together_guide.pdf - Ten Tips That May Help Your Child’s Transition to Adulthood
Source: PACER Center, the Minnesota Parent Training and Information Center, funded by the U.S. Department of Education’s Office of Special Education Programs
Link: adaselfadvocacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/PACER-10-Tips-for-Transitioning-to-Adult.pdf
Laws That Protect Your Child’s Rights
- About Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA)
Source: U.S. Department of Education
Link: sites.ed.gov/idea/about-idea/ - Protecting Students with Disabilities: Frequently Asked Questions About Section 504 and the Education of Children with Disabilities
Source: The Chicago Office of the Office for Civil Rights
Link: www.ldonline.org/ld-topics/special-education/protecting-students-disabilities-frequently-asked-questions-about - Section 504 and ADA: Protecting Children with Disabilities from Discrimination
Source: Wrights Law
Link: www.wrightslaw.com/info/sec504.index.htm - An Overview of the Americans with Disabilities Act
Source: ADA National Network
Link: adata.org/factsheet/ADA-overview
Money Management, ABLE Accounts, and Benefits Planning
- ABLE National Resource Center
Description: Accurate information about federal- and state-related ABLE programs and activities, including guidance on tax-advantaged ABLE savings accounts.
Source: ABLE National Resource Center
Link: www.ablenrc.org - Public Benefits
Source: The ARC Center for Future Planning
Link: futureplanning.thearc.org/pages/learn/where-to-start/financing-the-future/public-benefits - Money Smart for Young People
Source: Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation (FDIC)
Link: www.fdic.gov/resources/consumers/money-smart/teach-money-smart/money-smart-for-young-people/index.html - Special Needs Trusts
Source: The ARC Center for Future Planning
Link: futureplanning.thearc.org/pages/learn/where-to-start/financing-the-future/special-needs-trusts - Home & Community-Based Services 1915(c)
Source: U.S. Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services
Link: www.medicaid.gov/medicaid/home-community-based-services/home-community-based-services-authorities/home-community-based-services-1915c/index.html - State Medicaid Plans and Waivers
Source: U.S. Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services
Link: www.cms.gov/Outreach-and-Education/American-Indian-Alaska-Native/AIAN/LTSS-TA-Center/info/state-medicaid-policies
Supporting Your Young Adult in Making Daily & Major Life Decisions
Supported Decision Making
- Supported Decision Making – From Justice for Jenny to Justice for All
Authors: Jonathan Martinis, J.D., and Peter Blanck, Ph.D, J.D.
Description: The book tells the story of Jenny Hatch, young woman with Down syndrome who was living her life the way she wanted. She had a job, her own apartment, participated in her community, and spent time with friends. Then, in August 2012, a person in Jenny’s life wanted to become her guardian. Jenny lost her rights under guardianship and won them back when she showed the court that she uses Supported Decision-Making (SDM) to make her own decisions with help from people she trusts. The book also shows how a person can use Supported Decision Making in his/her life, with family members, or with people you support. It will give provide practical tips and model language to help you request, receive, and use SDM in the programs and life areas people with disabilities use every day, including Special Education, Vocational Rehabilitation, Person Centered Planning, Health Care, Money Management, and others.
Link: www.amazon.com/Supported-Decision-Making-Justice-Jenny/dp/1693400251
- Charting the Life Course – Experiences and Questions Booklet – A Guide for Individuals, Families, and Professionals
Source: Supported Decision-Making New York
Link: adaselfadvocacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/Charting-the-LifeCourse-Experiences-and-Questions-Booklet.pdf - Supported Decision-Making Teams: Setting the Wheels in Motion
Source: National Resource Center for Supported Decision-Making
Link: supporteddecisionmaking.org/resource_library/supported-decision-making-teams-setting-the-wheels-in-motion/ - Supported Decision Making Brainstorming Guide
Link: supporteddecisionmaking.org/resource_library/supported-decision-making-brainstorming-guide/
Source: National Resource Center for Supported Decision-Making - Supporting Daily & Major Life Decisions
Source: The ARC Center for Future Planning
Link: futureplanning.thearc.org/pages/learn/where-to-start/supporting-daily-and-major-life-decisions - Jenny Hatch Justice Project
Description: The Jenny Hatch Justice Project provides tools, advocacy, information, research for people with disabilities, families, advocates, attorneys, professionals they need to protect and promote the rights of people with disabilities to make their own choices and determine their paths and directions in life.
Link: jennyhatchjusticeproject.org
Other Support Models for Decision Making
- Help for agents under a power of attorney
Source: Consumer Financial Protection Bureau
Link: files.consumerfinance.gov/f/documents/cfpb_msem_power-of-attorney_guide.pdf - When a Representative Payee Manages Your Money
Link: www.ssa.gov/pubs/EN-05-10097.pdf
Source: Social Security Administration - Giving Someone a Power of Attorney For Your Health Care
Source: The Commission on Law and Aging American Bar Association
Link: www.americanbar.org/groups/law_aging/resources/health_care_decision_making/power_atty_guide_and_form_2011/
Employment Skills Development
- Helping Youth Develop Soft Skills for Job Success: Tips for Parents and Families
Source: National Collaborative on Workforce and Disability for Youth
Link: www.ncwd-youth.info/wp-content/uploads/2016/11/infobrief_issue28_0.pdf
Housing
- Tips When Considering Housing and Services
Source: National Parent Center on Transition and Employment
Link: adaselfadvocacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/tips-hosuing.pdf - Independent Living Related Activities
Source: Pathways to the Future
Link: www.pathwayswv.org/life-skills-activities.php
Health Care
- Transition to Adulthood: A Health Care Guide for Youth and Families
Source: Autistic Self Advocacy Network (ASAN)
Link: autisticadvocacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/ASAN-healthcare-toolkit-final.pdf - Transition to Adult Health Care
Source: National Parent Center on Transition and Employment
Link: adaselfadvocacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/transition-health-plan.pdf - A Young Person’s Guide to Health Care Transition
Source: National Collaborative on Workforce and Disability for Youth (NCWD/Youth)
Link: www.ncwd-youth.info/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/Young-Persons-Guide-to-Health-Care-Transition.pdf - State Medicaid Plans and Waivers
Source: U.S. Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services
Link: www.cms.gov/Outreach-and-Education/American-Indian-Alaska-Native/AIAN/LTSS-TA-Center/info/state-medicaid-policies - Healthcare.gov Portal – Definition of Authorized Representative
Link: www.healthcare.gov/glossary/authorized-representative/
Source: U.S. Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services - MedlinePlus Medical Encyclopedia – Definition of Health care agent
Source: U.S. National Library of Medicine, U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, and National Institutes of Health
Link: medlineplus.gov/ency/patientinstructions/000469.htm
Post-Secondary Training and Education Programs
- A Transition to Post-secondary Education and Employment for Students and Youth with Disabilities
Source: United States Department of Education, Office of Special Education and Rehabilitative Services
Link: sites.ed.gov/idea/files/postsecondary-transition-guide-may-2017.pdf
Planning for the Future
- The ARC’s Center for Future Planning
Link: futureplanning.thearc.org/pages/learn/future-planning-101 - Build Your Plan by the ARC
Source: The ARC Center for Future Planning
Link: futureplanning.thearc.org/landing
Description: Planning for the future is important for all families. You can’t do it just once. It’s an ongoing process. The Build Your Plan ® tool helps people with intellectual and developmental disabilities (I/DD) think about and plan for their future. The interests, preferences, and skills of the person with I/DD are the main focus. The tool guides you through important topics, including: - Expressing wishes for the future in writing
- Deciding where to live and how much support is needed
- Paying for basic and other needs
- Getting a job and other daily activities
- Making daily and major life decisions
- Making friends and having good relationships
- More Than Just a Job: Person-Centered Career Planning
Source: Institute for Community Inclusion
Link: www.communityinclusion.org/article.php?article_id=16 - Person-Centered Planning
Source: Administration for Community Living
Link: acl.gov/programs/consumer-control/person-centered-planning
SECTION 4: Suggested Advance Preparation for Parents
Planning Early – Transitioning to Adulthood
- The Journey to Life After High School: A Road Map for Parents of Children with Special Needs
Source: AbilityPath.org, An Online Initiative of Gatepath
Link: abilitypath.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/life-after-high-school.pdf - Transition Resources for Parents
Source: HEATH Resource Center at the National Youth Transitions Center
Link: www.heath.gwu.edu/parents-guide-transition - Ten Tips That May Help Your Child’s Transition to Adulthood
Source: PACER Center, the Minnesota Parent Training and Information Center, funded by the U.S. Department of Education’s Office of Special Education Programs
Link: adaselfadvocacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/PACER-10-Tips-for-Transitioning-to-Adult.pdf
Supporting Your Young Adult in Making Daily & Major Life Decisions
- Charting the Life Course – Experiences and Questions Booklet – A Guide for Individuals, Families, and Professionals
Source: Supported Decision-Making New York
Link: adaselfadvocacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/Charting-the-LifeCourse-Experiences-and-Questions-Booklet.pdf
Employment Skills Development
- Helping Youth Develop Soft Skills for Job Success: Tips for Parents and Families
Source: National Collaborative on Workforce and Disability for Youth
Link: www.ncwd-youth.info/wp-content/uploads/2016/11/infobrief_issue28_0.pdf
Planning for the Future
- Person-Centered Planning
Source: Administration for Community Living
Link: acl.gov/programs/consumer-control/person-centered-planning
SECTION 5: Presentation
Pre-Module for the Training Facilitator:
Facilitator Note: Record responses during this activity and save the list for an activity at the end of this module.
Facilitator Script: “As your students begin to advocate for themselves and to increase their independence, your role begins to shift from that of a protective parent to that of a supportive and guiding partner. This transition is a challenge for any parent. Let’s celebrate by making a list of the ways your students are beginning to make their own decisions or to advocate for themselves, and the milestones they will be facing in the near future as they increase their independence and make their own choices. This might include spending more time or later hours away from home, finding a job for the first time, learning to drive, moving into an apartment with friends, and so on. As parents, let’s think of the things that give us pride or concern us as our students increase their independence and build their self-advocacy skills, and we will put those things that concern us on our list.”
Record all responses from the group.
Facilitator Script: “Today we are going to talk about the challenge of changing roles from parent to partner.”
Facilitator Note: Use the Module 12 PowerPoint slides, Pathways to Careers… Changing Roles – From Parent to Partner.
Post Module for the Training Facilitator:
Facilitator Note: From the Pre-Module activity, review the list of celebrations and concerns from parents about their students building self-advocacy skills and increasing their independence. Add a second column to the list to identify ways that the group thinks a Parent could be a good Partner in each situation. For each suggestion, ask the group if they think the suggestion is a good strategy for being a Partner, and why or why not.
SECTION 6: Learning Activities
For the Training Facilitator:
Facilitator Note: Learning activities have been designed to reinforce the content from the PowerPoint presentation and/or videos. A menu of activities has been provided. You may choose one or more activities based upon the time that you have to present the material and upon the needs of the parents. For each interactive activity, suggested time frames are included with each activity. Please keep in mind the age of your students, their individual skill levels, and specific disabilities to allow time frames that are appropriate for your group.
Activity#1: Group Discussion
Activity 1A: “Changing Roles”
Time: 15 minutes or more
Facilitator Script: “What are some ways that our students have begun to advocate for themselves in their daily lives?”
What are some ways that our students are likely to want to increase their independence in the near future?”
“As a parent, how have you responded to these situations, or how do you think you are likely to respond to these situations in the near future?”
“Now let’s think of our changing roles from parents to partners.
- What are some things we can do to support our students to make their own decisions? Remember, we may or may not agree with their decisions.
- How can we show our students that we value their opinions?
- How can we show them that we have heard what they are trying to tell us?
- When your priorities are not the same as your student’s priorities, how do you reinforce that priorities can be different, but not necessarily better, and that you do respect their rights to make their own choices?”
Activity#2: Art Projects and Musical Expression
Art Project: “Making My Move to Partner”
Time: 15 minutes or more
Facilitator Note: “Using any art materials and a large piece of paper (drawing paper, flip-chart pages, etc.), have each person create an artwork to share with the group. If any members of the group have difficulty creating an artwork by themselves, consider having the group work in pairs or small groups of 3 – 4 members.
Facilitator Script: “Holding your paper lengthwise from left to right, fold the paper in half to make a section on the left and a section on the right. Using any art materials, including cutting pictures, words, symbols, numbers, etc. from magazines and pasting them on your paper, show something on the left half of your paper that you celebrate or concerns you that you have about your student’s ability to build self-advocacy skills and increase independence.
On the right half of your paper, use any art materials to show how you could be a partner to your student to support these new independence skills. These supports might include discussing a plan, identifying steps to meet a goal, talking through potential pitfalls or problems, supporting decision making, listening, and valuing opinions, and so on. When I call time, we will get back together to share our artwork and to discuss our roles as partners for our students as they build self-advocacy skills and increase their independence.”
Musical Expression “What Keeps Me Up At Night…”
Time: 15 minutes or more
Facilitator Note: For this musical expression activity, use activities such as singing, simple musical instruments, percussion instruments, drumming, etc. The activity of drumming can be done using plastic buckets or containers, or using hands on table tops. Using any object as the “Musical Wand,” each person in the circle or group can only “perform” when that person has possession of the Musical Wand.
Facilitator Script: “The first person with the Musical Wand gets to perform in any musical style of your choice to answer the question ‘What Keeps Me Up At Night?’ Of course, this has to be something that concerns you about your student building self-advocacy skills and increasing independence. This is the format you will use for your musical expression time in the spotlight:”
- What keeps me up at night?
- I’m concerned about my daughter/my son (sing as much information as you want about what worries you)
- Please give me your advice
- I need to better understand
- What keeps me up at night!
“At this point, the person with the Musical Wand who has just expressed his/her concerns passes the Musical Wand to a member of the group who would like to respond with some advice on how to be a partner in this situation. The new person with the Musical Wand sings a response in the following format:”
- I’ll give you my advice
- So you can better understand
- What keeps you up at night
- My best advice to you is (sing any suggestions about how to be a partner in this situation)
“Continue to pass the Musical Wand until no other suggestions are made. Then, start the process over with a new member of the group singing about what keeps that person up at night and requesting advice from the other members in the group.”
“Remember—When you have the Musical Wand, it is your turn to perform in the spotlight!”
Activity#3: Dramatic Arts
“What’s the Plan, Fran?”
Time: 15 minutes or more
Facilitator Note: Working in pairs, have each member of the pair take turns being the Parent and the Student in each situation.
Facilitator Script: “As parents, think of at least one situation that concerns you about your student building their self-advocacy skills, making their own decisions, and increasing their independence. Working in pairs, the first parent will act in the role of the student and present the situation to the second person. The second person will take the role of the parent partner and present guidance and suggestions for the situation. As a parent, you know your student better than anyone in the group. Be realistic about how your student will respond to the assistance provided by the parent partner. Do you think this will work for your student? Why or why not?”
“When I call ‘Time to Switch’, reverse roles and act out the second situation with the second parent taking the role of the student in that situation and the other person in the pair will be the parent partner providing direction and guidance for the student. Again, be realistic about how your student will react to the advice and suggestions from the parent partner.”
Facilitator Note: After the pairs have acted out the roles for each of the two situations, have the pairs discuss the following, or ask for feedback from each pair to share with the whole group if time permits about the following. Also, if time permits, ask for volunteer pairs to act out their two skits in front of the group, and have the group discuss the following:
- Did the parent guide the student toward a plan or next steps to consider in that situation?
- Did the parent provide support for the student in making decisions?
- Did the parent really listen to the student?
- Did the parent value the opinions of the student?
- Did the parent indicate a different, but not better, priority from the one expressed by the student?
Activity#4: Interacting with Youth Advocates
Facilitator Note: Invite a youth or young adult with a disability who has developed self-advocacy skills and has transitioned to living independently to speak briefly to your group of parents about this experience. If possible, invite a small panel of 2 – 4 youth and young adults with disabilities who have successfully transitioned to living independently to briefly share with your group about their experiences.
Allow time for the group to ask questions and dialogue with the speaker or panel of speakers.
Facilitator Note: Sources for identifying youth and young adults with disabilities who have successfully transitioned to living independently and advocating for themselves might include the following:
- ILRU Directory of Statewide Independent Living Councils
Link: www.ilru.org/projects/silc-net/silc-directory - Center for Independent Living
Link: acl.gov/programs/aging-and-disability-networks/centers-independent-living - The Association of Programs for Rural Independent Living (APRIL)
Link: www.april-rural.org/index.php/en/about-us
Activity 4A: “And Now, A Word from the Real World”
Time: 5—15 minutes
Facilitator Note: Invite a police officer or a small panel of 2 to 4 police officers to speak briefly to your group about the ways they protect and serve the community. Allow time for the group to ask questions and dialogue with the law enforcement officers.
Activity 4 B: Virtual Reality—"A Word from the Real World”
Time: 5 – 15 minutes
Facilitator Note: Using Zoom or a similar platform invite a youth or young adult with a disability who has developed self-advocacy skills and has transitioned to living independently to speak briefly to your group of parents about this experience. If possible, invite a small panel of 2 – 4 youth and young adults with disabilities who have successfully transitioned to living independently to briefly share with your group about their experiences. Allow time for the group to ask questions and dialogue with the speaker or panel of speakers.
SECTION 7: Handouts or Materials Needed
- Audiovisual equipment for PowerPoint presentation and/or videos.
- Art materials, blank paper, colored pencils or markers, rubber ball, and a bottle of liquid bubbles (Activity 1).
- Photocopies of PowerPoint slides, including alternate formats such as large print, Braille, and electronic formats, such as a USB drive for students with visual or print disabilities.
SECTION 8: After Class
Facilitator Note: This activity will allow parents to start a building a plan with their student as he/she transitions from high school to adulthood. “Build Your Plan” was developed by The Arc’s Center for Future Planning (link: futureplanning.thearc.org). The tool provides a way for the student and his/her your family to create an account with the Center and start making a future plan. It is important that you plan ahead to help guide a person with a disability to lead a good life as independently as possible. Although the plan was developed with a focus on people with intellectual and/or developmental disabilities (I/DD), it can be used by any person with a disability.
Talking Notes
During this time, we have learned that planning for your child’s transition from a teenager to adulthood is one of the most important things you can do to pave the way to a successful future. The key to success is to start planning early. We encourage you to use the “Build Your Plan” tool developed by The Arc’s Center for Future Planning. The tool provides a way for you and your son or daughter start making a plan for the future plan. Your child’s interests, preferences, and skills are the main focus. The Tool guides you through important topics, including:
- Expressing wishes for the future in writing
- Deciding where to live and how much support is needed
- Paying for basic and other needs
- Getting a job and other daily activities
- Making daily and major life decisions
- Making friends and having good relationships
Distribute the Handout: From Parent to Partner – Planning for the Future so that parents can complete the online tool at home. Encourage the parents to include their children in the planning process.
Handout: From Parent to Partner Planning for the Future Overview
Planning for your child’s transition from a teenager to adulthood is one of the most important things you can do. A plan will help pave the way to a successful future. The key to success is to start planning early. We encourage you to use the online tool, Build Your Plan by The Arc (futureplanning.thearc.org/landing) and work with your son or daughter to develop a plan for the future.
Build Your Plan by The Arc
Link: futureplanning.thearc.org/landing
Source: The ARC Center for Future Planning
Your child’s interests, preferences, and skills are the main focus. The Tool guides you through important topics, including:
- Expressing wishes for the future in writing
- Deciding where to live and how much support is needed
- Paying for basic and other needs
- Getting a job and other daily activities
- Making daily and major life decisions
- Making friends and having good relationships
Tips for Planning Success
- Start early.
- Work together with your student.
- Encourage your student.
- Complete the plan over several sessions.
- Remember, it is an ongoing process.
- Be open-minded.
- Set small goals towards the bigger goal of independence.
- Be patient.
- Plan about what you want your future to be, but also be open to new opportunities.
- Have fun!
Facilitator Note: Please print and distribute Module 12 – Parent to Partner Training Evaluation to the parents. After the surveys are completed, scan and email copies of the evaluations to the Southeast ADA Center’s project email at ADAsoutheast@law.syr.edu.
Module 12 – Parent to Partner Training Evaluation
- Was the information shared with you helpful? What did you find most helpful?
- Tell us about one thing you learned that will help with your child’s move from high school to adulthood?
- Were you aware of these resources prior to this training?
- What other topics would like to know about?
Thank you for participating in today’s training. If you have questions about the Americans with Disabilities Act, contact the Southeast ADA Center at:
Toll-Free: 1-800-949-4232
Phone: 1-404-541-9001
Email: ADAsoutheast@syr.edu
Web: www.adasoutheast.org
SECTION 9: Resources for Students
Laws That Protect Your Child’s Rights
- About Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA)
Source: U.S. Department of Education
Link: sites.ed.gov/idea/about-idea/ - Protecting Students with Disabilities: Frequently Asked Questions About Section 504 and the Education of Children with Disabilities
Source: U.S. Department of Education
Link: www2.ed.gov/about/offices/list/ocr/504faq.html - Section 504 and ADA: Protecting Children with Disabilities from Discrimination
Source: Wrights Law
Link: www.wrightslaw.com/info/sec504.index.htm - An Overview of the Americans with Disabilities Act
Source: ADA National Network
Link: adata.org/factsheet/ADA-overview
Money Management, ABLE Accounts, and Benefits Planning
- ABLE National Resource Center
Description: Accurate information about federal- and state-related ABLE programs and activities, including guidance on tax-advantaged ABLE savings accounts.
Source: ABLE National Resource Center
Link: www.ablenrc.org - Public Benefits
Source: The ARC Center for Future Planning
Link: futureplanning.thearc.org/pages/learn/where-to-start/financing-the-future/public-benefits - Money Smart for Young People
Source: Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation (FDIC)
Link: www.fdic.gov/consumers/consumer/moneysmart/young.html - Fact Sheet in Plain Language: What to Know about Public Benefits (PDF file)
Source: The ARC Center for Future Planning
Link: futureplanning.thearc.org/assets/FTF_PL-Public-Benefits-023be0e6b51175117153bbdae0b56e459e560ce9832acfe42742f1bd90e45e2c.pdf - Home & Community-Based Services 1915(c)
Source: U.S. Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services
Link: www.medicaid.gov/medicaid/home-community-based-services/home-community-based-services-authorities/home-community-based-services-1915c/index.html - State Medicaid Plans and Waivers
Source: U.S. Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services
Link: www.cms.gov/Outreach-and-Education/American-Indian-Alaska-Native/AIAN/LTSS-TA-Center/info/state-medicaid-policies
Supporting Your Young Adult in Making Daily & Major Life Decisions
Supported Decision Making
- Book: Supported Decision Making – From Justice for Jenny to Justice for All
Authors: Jonathan Martinis, J.D., and Peter Blanck, Ph.D, J.D.
Description: The book tells the story of Jenny Hatch, young woman with Down syndrome who was living her life the way she wanted. She had a job, her own apartment, participated in her community, and spent time with friends. Then, in August 2012, a person in Jenny’s life wanted to become her guardian. Jenny lost her rights under guardianship and won them back when she showed the court that she uses Supported Decision-Making (SDM) to make her own decisions with help from people she trusts. The book also shows how a person can use Supported Decision Making in his/her life, with family members, or with people you support. It will give provide practical tips and model language to help you request, receive, and use SDM in the programs and life areas people with disabilities use every day, including Special Education, Vocational Rehabilitation, Person Centered Planning, Health Care, Money Management, and others.
Link: www.amazon.com/Supported-Decision-Making-Justice-Jenny/dp/1693400251 - Supported Decision-Making Teams: Setting the Wheels in Motion
Source: National Resource Center for Supported Decision-Making
Link: supporteddecisionmaking.org/resource_library/supported-decision-making-teams-setting-the-wheels-in-motion/ - Supported Decision Making Brainstorming Guide
Link: supporteddecisionmaking.org/resource_library/supported-decision-making-brainstorming-guide/
Source: National Resource Center for Supported Decision-Making - Supporting Daily & Major Life Decisions
Source: The ARC Center for Future Planning
Link: futureplanning.thearc.org/pages/learn/where-to-start/supporting-daily-and-major-life-decisions - Jenny Hatch Justice Project
Description: The Jenny Hatch Justice Project provides tools, advocacy, information, research for people with disabilities, families, advocates, attorneys, professionals they need to protect and promote the rights of people with disabilities to make their own choices and determine their paths and directions in life.
Link: jennyhatchjusticeproject.org
Other Support Models for Decision Making
- Help for agents under a power of attorney
Source: Consumer Financial Protection Bureau
Link: files.consumerfinance.gov/f/documents/cfpb_msem_power-of-attorney_guide.pdf - When a Representative Payee Manages Your Money
Link: www.ssa.gov/pubs/EN-05-10097.pdf
Source: Social Security Administration - Giving Someone a Power of Attorney For Your Health Care
Source: The Commission on Law and Aging American Bar Association
Link: www.americanbar.org/groups/law_aging/resources/health_care_decision_making/power_atty_guide_and_form_2011/
Employment Skills Development
- Helping Youth Develop Soft Skills for Job Success: Tips for Parents and Families
Source: National Collaborative on Workforce and Disability for Youth
Link: www.ncwd-youth.info/wp-content/uploads/2016/11/infobrief_issue28_0.pdf
Housing
- Tips When Considering Housing and Services
Source: National Parent Center on Transition and Employment
Link: adaselfadvocacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/tips-hosuing.pdf - Independent Living Related Activities
Source: Pathways to the Future
Link: www.pathwayswv.org/life-skills-activities.php
Health Care
- Transition to Adulthood: A Health Care Guide for Youth and Families
Source: Autistic Self Advocacy Network (ASAN)
Link: autisticadvocacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/ASAN-healthcare-toolkit-final.pdf - A Young Person’s Guide to Health Care Transition
Source: National Collaborative on Workforce and Disability for Youth (NCWD/Youth)
Link: www.ncwd-youth.info/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/Young-Persons-Guide-to-Health-Care-Transition.pdf - State Medicaid Plans and Waivers
Source: U.S. Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services
Link: www.cms.gov/Outreach-and-Education/American-Indian-Alaska-Native/AIAN/LTSS-TA-Center/info/state-medicaid-policies - Healthcare.gov Portal – Definition of Authorized Representative
Link: www.healthcare.gov/glossary/authorized-representative/
Source: U.S. Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services - MedlinePlus Medical Encyclopedia – Definition of Health care agent
Source: U.S. National Library of Medicine, U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, and National Institutes of Health
Link: medlineplus.gov/ency/patientinstructions/000469.htm - Got Transition
Source: Maternal and Child Health Bureau and The National Alliance to Advance Adolescent Health
Link: gottransition.org/index.cfm - Family Voices
Link: familyvoices.org - National Center on Health, Physical Activity and Disability (NCHPAD) – For Families & Caregivers
Source: National Center on Health, Physical Activity and Disability (NCHPAD)
Link: www.nchpad.org/resource-categories/for-familes-caregivers/ - Transition Quick Guide: Take Charge of Planning and Managing Your Own Health and Career Goals
Source: Alliance with the Youth Transitions Collaborative, Got Transition/Center for Health Care Transition Improvement, and the U.S. Department of Labor’s Office of Disability Employment Policy
Link: adaselfadvocacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/transition-quick-guide.pdf - Quiz: Are you ready to transition to adult health care?
Source: Maternal and Child Health Bureau and The National Alliance to Advance Adolescent Health
Link: gottransition.org/youthfamilies/HCTquiz.cfm - Healthy and Ready for College!
Source: Think College, Institute for Community Inclusion, University of Massachusetts Boston
Link: thinkcollege.net/sites/default/files/files/resources/Insight8.pdf - Health Transition Planning and the Individualized Education Program (IEP)
Source: West Virginia Parent Training and Information, Inc
Link: wvpti-inc.org/familyinfo/family-information-resources/ - Transition to Adult Health Care
Source: National Parent Center on Transition and Employment
Link: adaselfadvocacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/transition-health-plan.pdf - Self-Advocacy and Self-Determination
Source: Families Helping Families of Greater New Orleans
Link: fhfofgno.org/resources/self-advocacy-and-self-determination - Moving to Adult Health Care: A 6-Part Toolkit Series for Health Care Transition
Source: The Center for Transition to Adult Health Care for Youth with Disabilities
Link: movingtoadulthealthcare.org/toolkits/
Post-Secondary Training and Education Programs
- Think College
Description: Think College is a national initiative dedicated to developing, expanding, and improving research and practice in inclusive higher education for students with intellectual disability.
Source: Institute for Community Inclusion, University of Massachusetts Boston
Link: thinkcollege.net - Think College Family Resources
Description: Think College is a national initiative dedicated to developing, expanding, and improving research and practice in inclusive higher education for students with intellectual disability.
Source: Think College, Institute for Community Inclusion, University of Massachusetts Boston
Link: thinkcollege.net/family-resources - Parents Can Think College
Description: This handout is to give ideas, suggestions, and supporting evidence for parents to be able to plan for college for their children with intellectual disabilities.
Source: Think College, Institute for Community Inclusion, University of Massachusetts Boston
Link: thinkcollege.net/sites/default/files/files/resources/parents_can_F_918.pdf - Students Can Think College
Description: This handout is to give ideas, suggestions, and supporting evidence for students to be able to plan for college. It also includes helpful guidance on areas of the Think College website to visit.
Source: Think College, Institute for Community Inclusion, University of Massachusetts Boston
Link: thinkcollege.net/sites/default/files/files/resources/students_can_F2_918.pdf - A Transition to Post-secondary Education and Employment for Students and Youth with Disabilities
Source: United States Department of Education, Office of Special Education and Rehabilitative Services
Link: sites.ed.gov/idea/files/postsecondary-transition-guide-may-2017.pdf
Planning for the Future
- The ARC’s Center for Future Planning
Link: futureplanning.thearc.org/pages/learn/future-planning-101 - Build Your Plan by the ARC
Source: The ARC Center for Future Planning
Link: futureplanning.thearc.org/landing
Description: Planning for the future is important for all families. You can’t do it just once. It’s an ongoing process. The Build Your Plan ® tool helps people with intellectual and developmental disabilities (I/DD) think about and plan for their future. The interests, preferences, and skills of the person with I/DD are the main focus. The tool guides you through important topics, including: - Expressing wishes for the future in writing
- Deciding where to live and how much support is needed
- Paying for basic and other needs
- Getting a job and other daily activities
- Making daily and major life decisions
- Making friends and having good relationships
- More Than Just a Job: Person-Centered Career Planning
Source: Institute for Community Inclusion
Link: www.communityinclusion.org/article.php?article_id=16
Americans with Disabilities Act Information Center
- ADA National Network
Phone: 1-800-949-4232 (toll free)
Website: adata.org
Facebook: facebook.com/adanetwork
Twitter: twitter.com/ADANational
National Resources
- U.S. Department of Justice – ADA Information
Link: www.ada.gov - U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC) – ADA Information
Link: www.eeoc.gov/eeoc-disability-related-resources - U.S. Access Board
Link: www.access-board.gov - US Department of Transportation – ADA Information
Link: www.transportation.gov/accessibility - Federal Communications Commission
Link: www.fcc.gov/general/disability-rights-office - The Association of People Supporting Employment First (APSE)
Link: apse.org
Community Organizations
- ILRU Directory of Statewide Independent Living Councils
Link: www.ilru.org/projects/silc-net/silc-directory - Center for Independent Living
Link: acl.gov/programs/aging-and-disability-networks/centers-independent-living - The Association of Programs for Rural Independent Living (APRIL)
Link: www.april-rural.org/index.php/en/about-us
